$\mathcal{D}^2$-Monitor: $\mathcal{D}$ynamic Safety Monitoring for $\mathcal{D}$iffusion LLMs via Hesitation-Aware Routing

Despite the emergence of diffusion large language models (D-LLMs) as an alternative to autoregressive large language models (AR-LLMs), safety monitoring for D-LLMs remains largely unexplored. Unlike AR-LLMs, D-LLMs generate text through a multi-step denoising process, exposing intermediate hidden representations that may contain safety-relevant information unavailable in standard single-step monitoring setups. Motivated by the suitability of lightweight probes for always-on monitoring, we analyze which trajectory-level signals best indicate when such probes are likely to struggle. We find that the most informative signal is safety hesitation: intermediate hidden states repeatedly falling within a small margin of the probe's decision boundary. The number of such hesitation steps in D-LLM's trajectory predicts probe failure effectively, providing a proxy of sample difficulty. Building on this analysis, we propose $\boldsymbol{\mathcal{D}^2}$-Monitor, a bi-level safety monitor for D-LLMs. $\mathcal{D}^2$-Monitor adopts a lightweight probe as an always-on monitor to jointly estimate hesitation and perform base classification. When the hesitation level exceeds a threshold, a more expressive but computationally heavier probe is activated. This dynamic routing mechanism allocates monitoring resources efficiently at test time. Evaluated on 3 datasets (WildguardMix, ToxicChat, OpenAI-Moderation) across 4 D-LLMs, $\mathcal{D}^2$-Monitor achieves state-of-the-art performance with a compact parameter footprint ($\leq$ 0.85M parameters), and exhibits the best trade-off between effectiveness and efficiency relative to 8 baselines.