Learning human objectives from preference feedback has significantly advanced reinforcement learning (RL) in domains where objectives are hard to formalize. However, traditional methods based on pairwise trajectory comparisons face notable challenges, including the difficulty in comparing trajectories with subtle differences and the limitation of conveying only ordinal information, limiting direct inference of preference strength. In this paper, we introduce a novel distinguishability query, enabling humans to express preference strength by comparing two pairs of trajectories. Labelers first indicate which of two pairs is easier to distinguish, then provide preference feedback only on the easier pair. Our proposed query type directly captures preference strength and is expected to reduce the cognitive load on the labeler. We further connect this query to cardinal utility and difference relations and develop an efficient query selection scheme to achieve a better trade-off between query informativeness and easiness. Experimental results demonstrate the potential of our method for faster, data-efficient learning and improved user-friendliness in RLHF benchmarks, particularly in classical control settings where preference strength is critical for expected utility maximization.